الأحد، 12 نوفمبر 2017

How can a man make his wife's requests without procrastination?

There are several methods and ways to help achieve the wife's requests without being rejected by her husband, the woman must deal with her husband intelligently so that she can easily fulfill her wishes. Sometimes the wife's requests are met with a severe refusal from her husband's side, even with his ability to fulfill her demands. There are several possible reasons for this. The husband may be dissatisfied with the wife's multiple requests and often complain, or do not submit her demands in a suitable manner that encourages the husband to fulfill her request. Sometimes she can not choose the right time to talk to her husband about her demands and he has to refuse directly without giving any reasons or excuses.

The wife should not exaggerate in her requests and do not be strange requests so that her husband can achieve their requests, do not practice the pressure on him requests exaggerated and which do not allow the potential of the husband or his time, and sometimes the husband feels that the wife's requests are unnecessary and not in Need it causing him discomfort. The many requests of the wife and the many requests of the wife exhausting her husband physically and physically, and make him feel permanent frustration when he can not meet the requests of his wife, and worse when the wife is pressing in their requests this causes him a great inconvenience, for example, some women ask her husband to request, Family, or go with her to visit the doctor, and even with his consent, they continue to repeat the talk about it and remind him of her request, and the husband does not need to remind him every ten minutes, but enough once or twice so as not to feel the urgency of his wife and pressure. The woman should be careful when she asks for a request from her husband. She does not choose the times when her husband is engaged in a job or is preoccupied with watching his favorite program, so he is not expected to respond to the requests. The wife does not ask her husband to remove the garbage and he knows he is planning to do so. He feels that she is telling him what he should do. Choosing the appropriate method The wife should move away from the method of ordering exactly when she asks anything from her husband, and she should monitor the tone of her voice even if the way of speech is not peremptory, the tone of voice may be a little of the matter, which irritates the husband, and better that the woman ask her husband About the possibility of doing something, that is, he must feel that his wife chooses him if he is able to fulfill their requests and does not order him. Briefly, the wife believes that she has to justify to her husband the reason for her request, and she is keen to explain to him why he must fulfill her request to make sure that she is truthful in her need for his help and help. This makes the man unable to help his wife freely and may feel that she is manipulating his feelings, Therefore, she should not give reasons as far as possible and it is sufficient to request her husband directly if he is asked about the reason for this request. Direct method The husband does not like twisted and indirect methods in the wife's requests, he can not understand these methods, but he may understand them in the wrong way, which causes problems between spouses, for example when the wife hinting to her husband in her desire to come out and say to him we did not come out long ago, What the husband understands here is that he accuses him of neglecting him and the children and not caring about taking them out for a walk. Therefore, the wife should present her request directly without a hint. She tells her husband, for example, that we would like to take a walk.

The husband hates problems, disagreements and distraught at home, so when the wife asks something from her husband to be careful to keep calm and do not run and get angry if he does not respond to their requests, but try to convince him calmly and choose the appropriate methods To view its demands. The wife can present her idea in a way that makes her think that he is the owner of the idea, and that he wants this matter with his will and not because his wife asked for Of that. Despite the fact that this method is a traditional method, but it has proven successful throughout the ages, the man is the man despite his hardness and hardness, but he is like a small child, and he needs words of praise and praise and treatment and kind and attention, making him ready to provide everything you ask him Wife, and the wife should always be grateful and appreciated for what he offers them. Bargaining Some wives resort to bargaining with their husbands to respond to their requests in return for responding to their requests. If the husband does not reject this method, it can always be followed is one of the most successful ways. The husband is happy when the wife is able to make her husband live happily with her and bring him comfort in his home, he will only have to reciprocate the same, he needs the words of love and feelings always kind and romantic, and the wife can ask what she wants from her husband after a romantic night, The pair is at the top of happiness and is like a ring in his wife's finger. Finally, the wife's requests, however many or simple, require a special method to make the husband respond to her. The husband hates the method of pressure and urgency and hates to feel forced to do something, but the wife can intelligently make him feel that he is the master of decision. As for his desire, the wife should be polite in talking to her husband in a polite manner while keeping away from the blame and resentment. There are some words that the husband likes such as hope, please, thank you and others. However, the wife should also not exaggerate the requests and take into account the material condition of the husband Psychological and suffering problems and concerns, You must choose the right time for what you ask of her husband.

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